**Are Women Really Just Looking to Be Saved? **

This question is quite intriguing and reflects our complex journey as women. When I asked others for their thoughts, many struggled to provide an answer. A male friend jokingly remarked, "Women don’t know what they want," to which I admitted, "Neither do I." Our unique needs and desires make it difficult to address such a broad question.

A superhero flies through the sky with a smiling woman, embodying a timeless rescue adventure.

First, let’s explore what "rescue" truly means. Should we take it literally? Historically and culturally, women have often depended on men for support. My mother, my grandmother, and her mother before her all relied on men for survival. The fight for women's rights began in the 1800s, culminating in 1920 when women were granted the right to vote. This milestone was significant, yet even then, we faced barriers in opening bank accounts, owning homes, obtaining credit cards, or starting businesses without a man's assistance. It wasn’t until 1974, with the Equal Credit Opportunity Act, that women could open a bank account without discrimination. Remarkably, it wasn’t until 1988 that a woman could independently own her own business without a male co-signer. This history has shaped our understanding of self-sufficiency. Some women have healed from it, while others have not.

Today, fewer women feel the need for a man to rescue them. Each generation is embracing self-reliance and independence, paving the way for a brighter future.

This raises another important question: If women are becoming more self-sufficient, how does this impact men's roles in society? Many men seem to feel they have lost their purpose. We no longer rely on them for shelter or food, so what role do they play in this modern age? One of my married friends offered a compelling perspective: There should be a balance between wanting support and embracing independence. When she is in need, her husband is there to support her, and when she needs to focus on her passions or responsibilities outside the relationship, he encourages her growth.

We all experience moments when we need to be rescued, but in today’s world, that rescue means seeking emotional support rather than mere survival. Let’s embrace our strength and celebrate the journey toward self-sufficiency, understanding that both men and women play vital roles in supporting each other’s growth.